by Hoffman Rhyne, President & Academic Dean of Christ Our Redeemer Seminary
Though Valentine's Day has been captured by consumerism, it's still a day that calls the whole world to reflect on the nature of love. For some it's a joyous day; for others it touches on a void. Wherever you find yourself, Valentine's Day brings us near to the reality that the human heart has an inner thirst for love. We long both to love and to be loved. We want to truly be someone to someone, to be fully known and fully accepted. The Bible not only acknowledges this universal human experience, but it reveals why this is the case and leads us to the fountain of all love.
The Biblical narrative begins with the profound statement, "In the beginning, God..." (Gen. 1:1). Have you ever stopped to think about what God was doing before that? Before the beginning, when all there was was God, what was he doing? This is the question that Michael Reeves explores in his excellent book Delighting in the Trinity: An Introduction to the Christian Faith.
Interestingly, Genesis 1 doesn't let us peek behind the curtain of time to find our answer. It simply begins with God in creative action, speaking the world into being. But as we keep reading in Genesis and on through the rest of the Old Testament, there are clues to an answer. The OT is clear that there is only one God – "Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God, the LORD is one,” (Deut. 6:4) and "I am God and there is no other," (Isa. 45:5) – and yet there are hints that this one God is a complex unity.
When Jesus arrives on the Biblical scene, he pulls back the curtain into the mystery of God's being. Jesus revealed that God's complex unity is what the third-century theologian, Tertullian, called the Trinity. God is a Tri-Unity, a being who is in himself three-in-one and one-in-three. Of course, the Trinitarian formula of "one God in three persons" is impossible for us to fully get our minds around, but Jesus put it in more specific and concrete terms. He referred to God as Father, himself as Son, and the Holy Spirit as proceeding from the Father and Son. Jesus revealed what had been until then a mystery - God is, has always been, and always will be Father, Son, and Spirit.
Commenting on this, the Trinitarian theologian, Colin Gunton, observes that "The nature of God is communion."[1] God is not a static hierarchy but a dynamic community [2], an eternal fellowship of persons. God is the three persons of the Trinity in relation to one another. The Father is not the Father apart from the Son. The Son cannot be the Son unless there is the Father. The Holy Spirit cannot proceed but from the other two. A current-day Trinitarian scholar Michael Reeves writes,
The Father is never without the Son but, like a lamp, it is the very nature of the Father to shine out his Son. And likewise, it is the very nature of the Son to be the one who shines out from his Father. The Son has his very being from the Father. In fact, he is the going out—the radiance—of the Father's own being. He is the Son. [3]
So what was this eternal three-in-one Triunity doing before he created all things? And what does this have to do with Valentine's Day? The answer...
Loving!
The Father was loving the Son. The Son was loving the Father. The Spirit was communicating the love of the Father & the Son. God is Father, Son, and Spirit and God is love. Within his own being, God has always been others-centered and outward moving. The Father always moving out in love by the Spirit to the Son who receives and reciprocates the Fathers love through the Spirit. Commenting on this, Reeves says, "Being perfectly loving, from all eternity the Father and the Son have delighted to share their love and joy with and through the Spirit." [4] Missionary John Samaan wrote this,
Within God's very nature is a divine rhythm or pattern of continuous giving and receiving– not only love, but also glory, honor, life...each in its fullness. Think. God the Father loves and delights in the Son, Jesus receives that love and pleases the Father. Jesus honors the Spirit and the Spirit glorifies the Father and the Son. Each person in the Trinity loves, honors and glorifies the other and receives love and honor back from the others....there is never any lack. [5]
There is no other God than the one God who is the Father, Son, and Spirit, eternally loving, delighting in, honoring, and glorifying one another. At the center of all reality is the Triune communion of perfect love. He is a God for whom the love of the other is central to his being. This kind of God, and no other kind, was before all time like this. That is what was happening before the world began.
To go back and finish the first sentence of the story, "In the beginning, God created the heavens and the earth…" (Gen. 1:1). God does not become loving at creation. Loving others is not extrinsic or external to his nature. Rather, love is his nature, and creation is its overflow. The Trinitarian circle is not a closed one, isolated, insulated, or turned in on itself. Instead, it is like a fountain, flowing ever outward. So it is entirely consistent with his others-centered, outward-moving nature for his love to flow outward and create others with whom to share his love.
But how can we really know that God is this way? Is he really this loving? What does his love look like? And how far does it go? How much is he willing to share? To what extent does he truly love us? The Apostle John tells us:
This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us.
- 1 John 3:16
God's love goes all the way to the cross. He loves us this much and in this way. "God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us” (Rom. 5:8). The love demonstrated on the cross is not a departure from God's nature but its fullest revelation. God's love takes the shape of the cross because this is who God is. He cannot be otherwise. To quote Michael Reeves again, "Through the cross, we see a God who delights to give himself."[6] Again, Reeves comments,
Astonishingly, the moment when Jesus finally reaches the deepest point of his humiliation, at the cross, is the moment when he is glorified and most clearly seen for who he is. On the cross we see the glorification of the glory of God, the deepest revelation of the very heart of God—and it is all about laying down his own life to give life. [7]
As we reflect on the profound nature of love revealed in the Trinity and demonstrated through Christ's sacrifice, we are reminded that Valentine's Day can be more than just a commercial holiday. It can serve as a powerful reminder of our deepest longings and the ultimate source of love. The Triune God—Father, Son, and Holy Spirit—exists in perfect, eternal communion, and invites us by faith into this divine fellowship of love. Through Jesus' self-giving love on the cross, we see the depths of God's love for us and the pattern for our own relationships. This Valentine's Day weekend, may we be inspired to love others with the sacrificial, others-centered love that flows from the heart of the Trinity and poured out unconditionally at the cross. Whether we find ourselves celebrating or longing, let us remember that we are deeply loved by a God whose very nature is love, and who calls us to reflect that love to the world around us.
[1] Colin E. Gunton as quoted by Uche Anizor in “A Spirited Humanity: The Trinitarian Ecclesiology of Colin Gunton,” Themelios 36. No. 1 (April 2011): 28.
[2] Uche Anizor, “A Spirited Humanity: The Trinitarian Ecclesiology of Colin Gunton,” Themelios 36.1 (2011), p.28.
[3] Michael Reeves, Delighting in the Trinity: An Introduction to the Christian Faith (Downers Grove, IL: IVP Academic, 2012), 26.
[4] Michael Reeves, Delighting in the Trinity: An Introduction to the Christian Faith (Downers Grove, IL: IVP Academic, 2012), 41.
[5] John Samaan, "The Triune God: A Dance of Love," Mission Frontiers (September-October 2006): 8-9.
[6] Michael Reeves, Delighting in the Trinity: An Introduction to the Christian Faith (Downers Grove, IL: IVP Academic, 2012), 114.
[7] Ibid., 115.